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Thursday, June 16, 2005

God wants to hear from you …

God reckoned the best way forward is to have His Words improvised and updated with the prevailing circumstances so that the divine doctrines and or laws will evolve with time and stay relevant to His Children in the very era they live in.

This website is designed to serve as a divine forum where laws, standards, values and code of ethic on morality, lifestyle, business and just about anything else related to our life will be published, discussed and eventually endorsed by God and His Children to be observed as the way of life.

Everyone is therefore welcome to express their views on just about any subject matter to be published hereafter by La Bona on behalf of God and or His Children. Please do not hesitate to leave a comment or write to La Bona directly at divinetalk@gmail.com on just about anything … You will not be charged for blasphemy, guaranteed.

5 Comments:

Blogger Clint said...

I really think God wants you to stop embarrassing Him. He told me. If you keep this up, He won't be able to show His face at parties. You really need to take your life into account and go somewhere and sit down.

1:45 AM  
Blogger La Bona said...

I am not aware God can be hararssed by a earthly being like you and me. Anyway, I hear you but I shall seek confirmation from God again, hopefully tonight.
Thanks for commenting.

9:53 AM  
Blogger La Bona said...

from Tricia

We need opinion on religious taboos… or taboo religions… or whatever.

And what is your position on red vs. green M&Ms.

Do they really not melt in your hand?

Even if you are working out at the gym… on a very hot day?

And tootsie rolls or tootsie pops?
Do you believe in ghosts?

Aaaaaaaaah…
the world is dying to know.

Thanks for the drunk commenting tip… you’re right! I feel so much more relaxed now.

11:03 AM  
Blogger *mollie* said...

hi. i really appreciate your page and am quite surprised that such a religiously faithful individual would make a page even acknowledging this issue of abortion. I think I am pro-choice, but am young and possibly do not have enough experience to make this decision. I am passionate about the issue of teen mothers and abortion in teen girls and would like to share my views.

Young women all over the world are financially and emotionally burdened every day with the resposibilities of motherhood. Most teenage girls are not ready to take on the lifelong commitment of having a child. Even those girls who choose to have unprotected sex and risk pregnancy are endangered with death during childbirth. Many of the children that are a result of these teen pregnancies end up fatherless and disadvantaged from the day they are born. I don't believe that abortion should be used as a type of birth control for women who are financially and fraternally ready to take on a child, but for a young girl whose life has already began and is still impending, pregnancy can be a distastrous and life-changing circumstance of sex.

I applaud organizations like Planned Parenthood who help young people be tested for STIs and provide contraception to them. I also appreciate you for posting this page and sharing both sides of this issue for comment.

10:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

8 Ways to Spot an Emotional Manipulator

by Fiona McColl


Emotional manipulators get extra marks for subtlety. A patronizing, mind-fucker can bend and twist and warp but somehow after a period of time they set off the ol’ bullshit meter. An emotional manipulator is smoother. You’ll have to adjust the sensitivity of your bullshit meter to escape unscathed. What is emotional manipulation? Well, emotional manipulation is a method of using words, body language and behavior for the purposes of provoking a particular reaction, getting a desired response or to just plain ol’ screw you over. If the emotional blackmailer is any good, he’ll having you offering to bend over and be fucked one more time, "anything you want dear." Lets talk about how an emotional manipulator works and how to recognize the game (because it very much IS a game) so you can reset that bullshit meter and safeguard against possible attack.

There is no use in trying to be honest with an emotional manipulator. You make a statement and it will be turned around. Example: I am really angry that you forgot my birthday. Response - "It makes me feel sad that you would think I would forget your birthday, I should have told you of the great personal stress I am facing at the moment - but you see I didn’t want to trouble you. You are right I should have put all this pain (don’t be surprised to see real tears at this point) aside and focused on your birthday. Sorry." Even as you are hearing the words you get the creeped out sensation that they really do NOT mean they are sorry at all - but since they’ve said the words you’re pretty much left with nothing more to say. Either that or you suddenly find yourself babysitting their angst!! Under all circumstances if you feel this angle is being played - don’t capitulate! Do not care take - do not accept an apology that feels like bullshit. If it feels like bullshit - it probably is. Rule number one - if dealing with an emotional blackmailer TRUST your gut. TRUST your senses. Once an emotional manipulator finds a successful maneuver - it’s added to their hit list and you’ll be fed a steady diet of this shit.

An emotional manipulator is the picture of a willing helper. If you ask them to do something they will almost always agree - that is IF they didn’t volunteer to do it first. Then when you say, "ok thanks" - they make a bunch of heavy sighs, or other non verbal signs that let you know they don’t really want to do whatever said thing happens to be. When you tell them it doesn’t seem like they want to do whatever - they will turn it around and try to make it seem like OF COURSE they wanted to and how unreasonable you are. This is a form of crazy making - which is something emotional manipulators are very good at. Rule number two - If an emotional manipulator said YES - make them accountable for it. Do NOT buy into the sighs and subtleties - if they don’t want to do it - make them tell you it up front - or just put on the walk-man headphones and run a bath and leave them to their theater.

Crazy making - saying one thing and later assuring you they did not say it.If you find yourself in a relationship where you figure you should start keeping a log of what’s been said because you are beginning to question your own sanity --You are experiencing emotional manipulation. An emotional manipulator is an expert in turning things around, rationalizing, justifying and explaining things away. They can lie so smoothly that you can sit looking at black and they’ll call it white - and argue so persuasively that you begin to doubt your very senses. Over a period of time this is so insidious and eroding it can literally alter your sense of reality. WARNING: Emotional Manipulation is VERY Dangerous! It is very disconcerting for an emotional manipulator if you begin carrying a pad of paper and a pen and making notations during conversations. Feel free to let them know you just are feeling so "forgetful" these days that you want to record their words for posterity’s sake. The damndest thing about this is that having to do such a thing is a clear example for why you should be seriously thinking about removing yourself from range in the first place. If you’re toting a notebook to safeguard yourself - that ol’ bullshit meter should be flashing steady by now!

Guilt. Emotional manipulators are excellent guilt mongers. They can make you feel guilty for speaking up or not speaking up, for being emotional or not being emotional enough, for giving and caring, or for not giving and caring enough. Any thing is fair game and open to guilt with an emotional manipulator. Emotional manipulators seldom express their needs or desires openly - they get what they want through emotional manipulation. Guilt is not the only form of this but it is a potent one. Most of us are pretty conditioned to do whatever is necessary to reduce our feelings of guilt. Another powerful emotion that is used is sympathy. An emotional manipulator is a great victim. They inspire a profound sense of needing to support, care for and nurture. Emotional Manipulators seldom fight their own fights or do their own dirty work. The crazy thing is that when you do it for them (which they will never ask directly for), they may just turn around and say they certainly didn’t want or expect you to do anything! Try to make a point of not fighting other people’s battles, or doing their dirty work for them. A great line is "I have every confidence in your ability to work this out on your own" - check out the response and note the bullshit meter once again.

Emotional manipulators fight dirty. They don’t deal with things directly. They will talk around behind your back and eventually put others in the position of telling you what they would not say themselves. They are passive aggressive, meaning they find subtle ways of letting you know they are not happy little campers. They’ll tell you what they think you want to hear and then do a bunch of jerk off shit to undermine it. Example: "Of course I want you to go back to school honey and you know I’ll support you." Then exam night you are sitting at the table and poker buddies show up, the kids are crying the t.v. blasting and the dog needs walking - all the while "Sweetie" is sitting on their ass looking at you blankly. Dare you call them on such behavior you are likely to hear, "well you can’t expect life to just stop because you have an exam can you honey?" Cry, scream or choke ‘em - only the last will have any long-term benefits and it’ll probably wind your butt in jail.

If you have a headache an emotional manipulator will have a brain tumor! No matter what your situation is the emotional manipulator has probably been there or is there now - but only ten times worse. It’s hard after a period of time

12:22 AM  

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